How to be a Successful Wife
by Muhammad Alshareef,
1. Use your 'Fitnah' to win the heart of your
husband.
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed
them with.
Use the beauty Allah Ta'ala has
bestowed you with to win the heart of your
husband.

2. When your husband comes home, greet him
with a wonderful greeting.
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean
house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner
prepared with care, children clean and sweet
smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite
does to him.


3. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn
and try to imitate them.

The Qur'an and Sunnah describe the women in
Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk
they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to
their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your
husband, put Kohl in your eyes to 'enlarge' them,
and sing to your husband.

4. Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house.
From the early years, little girls have adorned
themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn
pretty dresses - as described in the Qur'an. As a
wife, continue to use the jewelry that you have
and the pretty dresses for your husband.

5. Joke and play games with your husband.
A man's secret: they seek women who are
lighthearted and have a sense of humor. As
Rasulullah (saw) told Jabir to marry someone who
would make him laugh and he would make her
laugh.

6. Thank your husband constantly for the nice
things he does. Then thank him again.
This is one of the most important techniques, as the
opposite is a characteristic of the women of
hellfire.

7. An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it
with a simple 'I'm sorry' even if it is not your fault.
When you fight back, you are only adding wood
to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will
end when you just say sincerely,
"Look, I'm sorry.
Let's be friends."

8. Always seek to please your husband, for he is
your key to Jannah.
Rasulullah (saw) taught us that any woman who
dies in a state where her husband is pleased with
her, shall enter Jannah. So… please him.

9. Listen and Obey!
Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is
the Ameer of the household. Give him that right
and respect.

10. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and
relationship successful.
All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask
Allah Ta'ala for the blessing of having a successful
marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues
on -

by the Mercy of Allah Ta'ala - into Jannah. And Allah ta'ala knows best.